Previously in my blog entry called Man of my dreams/nightmare!? I spoke of the different personalities of men that we women love and appreciate and the ones we don’t. Well turnabout is fair play, right? Yes it is. Ladies, here are the personalities that men find very attractive in us and the ones they don’t.
She loves to have fun. Ready to try anything. Skydiving, race car driving, whatever. Seems like she has an unlimited amount of energy. She can go dancing the night before and wake up the next morning ready for work and her favorite outfit of choice is a sexy dress and stiletto heels . This SEXY BAD GIRL is just about every man’s dream. Her wardrobe consists of beautiful but sexy clothing. It doesn’t matter her size or height, when she walks into the room it is not long before attention is diverted her way. Her flirting is subtle, but she never fails to get your attention. Her weapon of seduction is her ultimate confidence along with her independent attitude. Flip side: Skanky clothes, falling down drunk at the end of the night and sleeping around, foul mouth, taking advantage of people and getting into fights does not make you a sexy bad girl, but it does make you a dumb ho!
The next women men love to love is of course WIFEY. Wifey is very feminine and is devoted to her man, her children and her household. She is super supportive and makes sure the home front is expertly taken care of. She knows just how to juggle husband, children and home. She knows her worth in the family and has her man’s ear and frankly when all is said and done is the final decision on many a situation, because she has the ability to look at all sides and put the family first. This woman actually seems to flourish in this role and considers it every bit as important as a high powered job. Now, if wifey is neglecting the children and ignoring all other people in her life so she can focus on her man, following him around ready to be there at his every turn, then men beware. If she has planned YOUR wedding together moments after meeting you, down to the minute detail, then know this woman is not looking for a mate but fulfilling her fantasy of being somebody’s wife.
She owns a business or is a pivotal player in a corporation. She is just at home in the boardroom as she is in the bedroom. She knows the finer things in life and she knows she has to work for it and will never settle. You got it! Enter the BUSINESSWOMAN. This woman takes care of business in every which way. Educating herself on a regular basis is of the utmost importance in her life. When it comes to her career she is in definite control, preferring to be in environments that promote wheeling and dealing. Her conversations are sprinkled with ways to create business. Don’t get it twisted, she plays hard and loves just as hard because she know that there must be a balance in life. Intensity of living is what she is all about. As with the previous personalities, beware of the business woman who seems like she is filled with testosterone. She works herself into a frenzy, not leaving herself any real time to cultivate a relationship, so she ends up being a serial dater dating men at her whim. She takes the lead in any group of people. She is definitely the lead female in any group of women. She could more or less be considered an alpha female. She is typically your ball busting type woman as she doesn’t know when to separate business dealing with a friendly debate.
Daddy’s girl and gold diggers. Guys, if you are looking for a solid, mature relationship you want to avoid these types of personalities and yes, it is true you cannot turn a ho into a housewife or a loving, caring partner, unless of course she has decided to make the change herself. However, these aforementioned personalities are the epitome of selfishness. They will take you on a roller coaster ride and trust me if you make it off that ride, exhilarated is not what you will be feeling. These women are enticing because they are impeccably kept, but that comes at a price, so increase the limit on your credit card because the bill is on you!